Being single isn't always easy! Though being single can be just what is needed at a particular time! If you are single and having a tough time,EMAIL ME! we've all been there at sometime in our life! If you think you've entered the 'danger zone'...ASK for advice! All in confidence & all honest replies!

Free & Single

Does being single bother you?....... In everyday life single people make up over 50% of the population, the other 50% are divided up between: married, living together & dating.

As a single person you make up the highest percentage of the public in relationship statistics! Meaning that as the largest emotional sector, there are alot of available/single individuals out there all either happy to be single and enjoying their      independency, or plenty of possible partners!!

 It is a shame that the term 'single' does seem to have such a dramatic affect on people, at the end of the day this word isn't always a negative word!.....Plenty of people are happy to be single, even temporarily!

Is it not better to be single than be with someone that you don't want to be? 

 It is hard enough being in a relationship, looking after another person's feelings without having the knowledge that you would rather not be.

Singledom isn't a disease! It's a fact! Being single is only a period in your life, one that admittedly can be unhappy, but also can be one that allows you to find your own feet, find your own position in life and one that lets you have time to see for yourself what your next move will be, sometimes we need this time to reassess our life and make changes where necessary!

The problems we will face include the disbelief that we  cannot cope alone, this  can lead us to do silly things! We have all done it! Whatever is inside us at the time has a dramatic affect on what we do, and emotions run into turmoil! This feeling of being lonely and near desperate can get us to act in ways that under normal circumstances we just would not do!

Rest bite from relationships can do wonders for your confidence! Being single doesn't have to be all doom and gloom!It may take a while to convince yourself of this, but one you've come to terms with it, you might even like it!

Everybody likes to feel wanted, one way or another! Don't use this as an excuse for doing something stupid! Some things we do in these circumstances lead to changes in our lives that can have lasting affects on our emotional state.

See yourself as an individual, because in the end, that's what we all are, whether we are single or attached! Problems being single are not just the issues surrounding loneliness......As a single person your main consideration is near always going to be yourself, this is natural! But as looking after oneself can again nearly always lead to becoming slightly selfish and possibly even a little self obsessed, again this comes with the natural way we learn to look after our own well being. Self defence and self preservation will come into play  whether we like it or not, it's a part of life, and as such we do have to learn to control it, otherwise what does happen can again leave us with lasting consequences!

Single life does not have to be permanent! When the time is right Mr or Mrs right will come along, whether it is you or they that make the first move. Waiting the correct time span to meet your new partner is the problem we all undoubtedly have, for some unknown reason the urge to seek out a potential new mate is always a priority if the single life isn't living up to any expectations. Rushing into a relationship when you are not ready will 99% of the time be the wrong thing to do, but as we are only human after all, we probably will do it anyway! Because we was never blessed with hind sight! Unfortunately!

 

 

Ask me your questions!  I am here to help.....All in 100% confidence, all impartial and unbiased! All replies answered within 24hrs!!

Whatever your problem is......It's always worth asking. I am open minded and will give advice straight from the heart!